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“The Perfect Wife”

Men are complianing, It’s so hard to find the “Perfect African wife”. To Some, below 👇 are the qualities of a “good wife”. Over the years, I have read a lot of comments and post online from Africans . Some real life discussions have exposed me to their mentality as well. I have come to realize that most African men would prefer a naive woman. She can be educated, but not street smart. She must be extremely submissive to the point of giving him all her earnings, investments, and not able to make any decisions related to her well-being without…

Who Are Your Friends?

Who are your friends? I ran into an old friend at an event about a yr ago. She was with another friend of hers. She looked so beautiful and well put together. I really admired her beauty and outfit. It was time for us to take a picture, she refused. But She took over 40 pictures of herself, i swear to God. She hated every single one of them. She complianed about her arms, face, belly and so many other things that we all do complian about. I was so sad because all I could see was a beautiful woman . I…

Fire department just left my house.

It is 0100am . Fire department just left my house. Hubby travelled 2days ago, and I have caused enough chaos in the past few days. I got home from work, sat down to do some social media catching up. I heard a funny noise. I turned off my old “grandma” laptop , and my son’s art digital wacom. The noise still continued. Haa! I ran upstairs to trace the noise, no luck, I went to the basement, nothing. It sounded like it was coming from inside the wall and ceiling in the dinning area . So I ran upstairs to…