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16 things every young lady should know before age 30.

Have you ever heard the saying “age comes with lots of wisdom?” Trust me, that is some serious truth. Not every young lady was privileged to know about this information I’m about to share with you now girl. Count yourself lucky if you are reading this. A Facebook friend named ‘Omoby’ made a status update on Facebook. She asked for us to share “what types of advice to give to younger ladies.” I made a comment sharing these recommendations for every young lady out there. I believe these are some serious and important core values needed. 1). Build your own…

“YOU ARE INSECURE IF YOU DON’T TAG YOUR SPOUSE ON SOCIAL MEDIA.”

Why do people care if you tag or don’t tag your spouse?. Unbelievable! I think this should be a personal choice. There was a TREND going on social media about “women who don’t tag their husbands, are insecure.” I mean, I am aware there are other things in the world to worry about. But here we are talking about tags on social media, lol. That’s what makes the world interesting, right?. NOW LET’S DISCUSS THE ASSUMPTIONS PEOPLE HAVE ABOUT TAGGING OR NOT TAGGING OF SPOUSES ON SOCIAL MEDIA. People believe ‘not tagging’ your spouses means you are insecure because… 1.…

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. YES OR NO?

Having abstained from sex while dating, (for almost eight years), I think I dare to share with you what worked for me, for us. I’m also sharing because some people who know our story have asked how we did it. HOW TO ABSTAIN FROM PREMARITAL SEX It should be obvious to all of us that we live in a sex-mad culture, we live in a culture that is indulging itself in every conceivable and inconceivable sexual activity. Not only is sexual sin tolerated and seen as a norm, and not just being tolerated and advocated, it is promoted, marketed through…

6 REASONS WHY WOMEN NEED MARRIAGE FOR NOTHING.

WOMEN NEED MARRIAGE FOR NOTHING Written By Esiri Ukueku Uduaghan. WARNING: I’m approaching this topic from a PRAGMATIC and CEREBRAL point of view, SO PLEASE if you do not possess the ability to reason within those boundaries (i.e Religious and Moral Police) please swerve to the left. 😊Thank you. Here we go👇 Growing up in a patriarchal society as a young girl, you are socially engineered to look forward to your wedding day. I guess it’s something in the breast milk female babies are fed🤣. Your Wedding day is the ultimate day of your life and you are expected to…

13 tips you must know before you get married.

MARRY WITH SENSE. Love is so sweet that you can easily get carried away. Trust me, love is the foundation in a marriage. I also believe you need more than just love . There are a few things to put into consideration and discuss with your partner first before getting married. People don’t always tell you how hard it’s going to be. It is not always a fairytale. Havilah Olohi Gold wrote, “The biggest error a woman can make is marrying a man she has never provoked”. It is important to know how he manages his anger,before saying I do.…